She has a podcast. She has a memoir. She has a Grammy nomination for that memoir. She has everything a woman of her particular ambitions could want — except, apparently, any lingering attachment to the years she spent raising her daughters.
On her latest podcast episode, with Comedy Central’s Jon Stewart as the guest, Michelle Obama was asked whether she misses having her kids around. Stewart tried to offer her a graceful way to say yes: “You obviously miss the energy and excitement of the kids being around.” Her answer: “I don’t!”
She hastened to add that she loves her daughters and would see them for dinner. Then she described their departure for college as their “emancipation.” Her word. Emancipation. As in, her children growing up and moving out freed her. The White House years — in which a full-time staff of 90 handled the household, her mother Marian Robinson moved in to handle daily child-rearing, and her schedule consisted largely of world travel and public appearances — were apparently still too confining.
“I love my schedule,” she said. “It’s all mine.”
WATCH:
Jon Stewart: “You obviously miss the energy and excitement of the kids being around is so incredible.”
Michelle Obama: “I don’t! I love them. I’m going to see them tonight for dinner. I love them. But Barack cried when they went to college. I was like, ‘Bye, goodbye!’”
Stewart:…
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The contrast with the woman she prevented from getting a job is worth noting. Cheryl Hines has played the devoted, exasperated wife and partner for 23 seasons of Curb Your Enthusiasm — a role defined by patience, warmth, and loyalty. According to reporting, Michelle Obama blocked Hines from being cast in Larry David’s new HBO series specifically because Hines is married to RFK Jr., who serves in the Trump administration. Hines wasn’t asking Michelle Obama for anything. She just wanted a job. Obama made sure she didn’t get it.
The woman who went low. Twice.
The image Michelle Obama has carefully cultivated for 20 years is that of America’s relatable, warm, committed mother — the parent who chose sleepover logistics and school visits over the glamour of state functions, who grounded her daughters in normalcy despite the abnormality of White House life. That image, in retrospect, required a certain amount of creative autobiography.
Her mother was the primary caregiver. The staff handled the household. The children went to a $40,000-per-year private school. And now, with the daughters grown and gone, Michelle Obama can’t quite conceal her relief that parenting is in the past tense.
Elizabeth Barcohana said what most mothers were thinking: “She seems happy that her daughters’ childhoods are over. That is not a relatable feeling for most mothers at all.”
Michelle Obama is not Hillary Clinton-level villainous. She’s not running anything, passing any laws, or wielding any power. She’s just a former first lady with a podcast who keeps saying the quiet part loud about what she actually thinks about the roles she publicly celebrated.
“Bye, goodbye,” she told Barack, laughing, when their daughters left for college. He cried. She waved. Draw your own conclusions.
